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Digital Legacy: Phones, Accounts and Subscriptions

A great deal of modern life lives behind a phone screen: an internet bank with no passbook, years of photographs, a payment app with a balance, subscriptions that renew every month. Without a note from you, your family may not know any of it exists. Blue Rain Harbor helps you list these things and decide what should happen to each one. We help you decide; we do not keep your passwords.

Talk It Through What to List

Start With a Digital Inventory

Begin with the device in your pocket. If the phone is locked and no one knows the passcode, much of the rest may be out of reach, including the email account that lets people reset other logins. Then think about money that exists only online: internet banks, brokerage accounts, prepaid cards and QR-code payment balances.

The inventory we help you make records the service, the type of account, who else knows it exists and where the instructions are kept. It should not contain the passwords themselves. A relative reading it should be able to answer one question for each line: what is this, and what should I do about it?

What to Put on the List

  • The phone, tablet and computer, and who can unlock them
  • Main email accounts and the recovery address or number for each
  • Internet banks, brokerage accounts and any crypto-asset exchange accounts
  • Payment apps, prepaid cards and loyalty points with real value
  • Cloud storage and photo libraries
  • Social media and messaging accounts
  • Websites, blogs and domain names you pay for
  • Subscriptions and memberships that renew automatically
  • Online shopping accounts with a saved payment method
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Passwords: Keep Them Out of the Notebook

Families often ask for a single document with every password. It is an understandable idea and a risky one: anyone who finds it, or any message you send it in, gets the keys to everything. We take a different line. Blue Rain Harbor does not collect, store or hold your passwords, recovery codes or security answers, and we will not ask you to send them to us.

There are safer routes, and which suits you depends on how comfortable you are with technology. Some password managers and phone makers offer an emergency-access or legacy-contact feature; check what your provider offers and read its conditions. A sealed envelope in a safe place, with a short note of where it is kept, also works for many people. Whatever you choose, tell the person who would need it that it exists.

Habits That Help

  • Use a password manager, and let one trusted person know how access would work
  • Never email or message passwords, even to family
  • Keep recovery codes on paper, away from the device they protect
  • Turn on two-step verification, and note where the second factor lives
  • Review the arrangement whenever you change phone or main email
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What Should Happen to Each Account

Once you know what you have, decide what each item should become. A social media profile might be closed, or kept as a memorial if the service allows it. Photographs might be copied to the family. A subscription should simply be cancelled. An internet bank or brokerage account is different: it is part of your estate, and the heirs will have to deal with it through the proper procedures.

A written list of wishes about accounts is a helpful memo for your family. It is not a will and does not replace one, and each service has its own rules about what it will do for relatives. If accounts hold real money, mention them to the professional who helps with your will or inheritance paperwork.

1

Sort the Accounts

Group them as money, memories, communication and subscriptions. Different groups need different decisions.

2

Decide for Each

Close, keep, copy to the family, or hand to the heirs. One short line per account is enough.

3

Say Where to Look

Name the person who knows how to get in and the place where the instructions are kept, not the passwords.

4

Check What Needs a Professional

Accounts that hold money or crypto-assets are part of an inheritance. A tax accountant or scrivener can say how they are handled.

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Photographs, Voices and Letters

Not everything in a digital legacy is administrative. Years of photographs, a voice recording of a story, a recipe in a parent’s handwriting: these are often what a family values most, and what is easiest to lose when a phone breaks or a subscription lapses.

We do not host a portal or an archive. What we offer is a way of going about it: choosing what is worth keeping, labelling it so that others can understand it, and keeping copies in two places that your family knows about. A printed album or a short handwritten letter can outlast any app.

Photo Folders

One folder per year or event, with a few lines about who is in the pictures. Names are what disappear first.

Printed Albums

A small selection printed on paper needs no password and no electricity.

Voice and Video

A few minutes of you telling a story. Keep a copy on a device the family can reach, and check it plays.

Letters

Short notes to particular people. They do not need to be long to be kept.

Recipes and Playlists

The small things that make a household recognisable: the soup, the songs, the way the table was set at New Year.

Two Places

Keep every important copy in at least two locations, and tell someone where they are.

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Why It Is Worth the Effort

Digital accounts are easy to forget and hard to chase. A short, honest list spares a family weeks of guessing and, in some cases, avoids money being lost to a subscription nobody noticed.

Fewer Surprises

Relatives find out about internet banks and renewing subscriptions from your list, not from a bill or a letter.

Privacy You Control

You decide who is told what, and the secrets themselves stay where you keep them.

Less Pressure on the Family

Clear wishes about photos and profiles take difficult decisions off people who are grieving.

Honest Limits

A memo of wishes is not a will, and a service’s own rules still apply. We say so up front.

Make a First List of Your Accounts

Bring what you have, even if it is only a few lines on the back of an envelope. We will help you turn it into something your family could actually use.

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